Sunday, July 15, 2007
Back in the Saddle (Part 2)
Back in the Saddle again!
Monday, July 9, 2007
Adoption from Ethiopia
I also know that there are many unknowns about a pregnancy. Babies can die in utero, babies can be born with defects and babies can develop diseases shortly after birth. So there is uncertainty even in a baby growing in a daughter. That fact gives me much comfort at this point. Adoption vs. Natural childbirth (probably the wrong terminology, but I am still learning, as I said) there are many unknowns and many uncertainties in both. More similiar than I thought...
Biking Fool over 50 goes for a fly
Getting back to Saturday's misadventure, we started in Lake Mills because I had to borrow my daughther's bike since as you may recall, my bike is in the shop after if flew off our bike carrier. We debated whether or not we should buy daily passes since I had forgotton our yearly passes at home. We did indeed buy them at $4.00 a head.
We got on the trail with the intention of riding to Jefferson, returning to Lake Mills and then riding the other way from LM toward London. That would give us a nice 20 mile ride, but the bike gods had different ideas for us that day.
Since our ride was going to be short, we did not bring our usually well stocked backpack. All we had along was our cell and a pick for my hair. ( I never do a bike ride without a pick to fix the bike hair) Oh, and our water bottles since the heat index was predicted to be in the high nineties. Our ride to Jefferson was nice. We did comment on the holes in the gravel trail. In fact as I bounced over one hole, I said to John, "Good thing my tongue wasn't between my teeth or I might have bitten if off!"
We turned aaround at Jefferson and headed back to LM. I hit the same hole going at a nice clip and flew off my bike. Let me tell you, there is nothing pretty about a 54 year old woman flying off her bike. Actually, I never flew, just held on for dear life, I think. I got up and accessed the damages. First off, luckily no one had seen me fall-always good for the pride factor. My knee was pretty scraped up since it had dragged along the gravel path, but other than that all other parts of my body seemed to work fine. Of course, we had nothing to put on the bleeding knee. My husband always carries a handkerchief, I know that is gross, but for once I wished he had one! But alas, the one time he doesn't bring one... He offered to tear his shirt for a make shift bandaid, but I didn't think he could get it torn, so I took off one of my small socks and held it on the knee. After a few minutes the bleeding seems to subside so we got back on the bikes and began the five and a half mile ride back to LM. As I was riding along my other leg was really hurting and I checked it out. I could feel such a big bump developing. I think I fell on the bar of the bike . The ride back to my daughter and son-in-law's was quick, I just wanted to get there and fast! I never felt so good to be done with a bike ride. We cleaned the scrape up and went on to Wendy's for lunch.
Now is someone trying to tell me to give up the bike riding? First the bike flies off the car and then I fly off the bike. They say bad things come in threes, so I am waiting for the third ball to drop. The Trifecta of bike riding, I guess.
Friday, July 6, 2007
Biking Fools Over 50
My husband and I turned 50, bought Treks, and hit the trails and we haven't looked back, well except for last Sunday when on our way home from a ride in Iowa, my bike flew off the bike carrier on I-35 going 65 miles an hour. But in true Trek form, the bike had only minor damage and is presently in the shop where it will be fixed for a slight fee.
I began a search for good trails to ride in Wisconsin and was frustrated with the lack of information out there that dealt with the concerns of bike riders over 50, things like:
- Are there bathrooms along the trail and if so where are they located and how many miles are between these bathrooms?
- Is the trail level or will there be steady grades that will require some tedious work to ascend?
- Are there restaurants along the trail and places to get a soda?
- And, lastly, where is the closest health facility in case of heart attack!!!
Wisconsin is blessed with lots of wonderful rails to trails bike trails and we have enjoyed lots of them, but we wanted to share our favorites here:
- The White River State Trail - Hop on the trail in Elkhorn behind Eastowne Manor on Highway H and ride to Springfield where you can have lunch at the Cup & Pedal. The restaurant is in a restored Depot and serves great food and drink. Also has clean bathrooms. I think it is the only building in Springfield. Not sure how much farther the trail went past Springfield, but we turned around and headed back for a total of 16 miles or so. Nice scenery along the path, too. Going back to Elkhorn is slightly uphill, but not too bad and after a lunch to refresh it seemed fine. Also take a ride around Elkhorn, a nice flat city to explore. Lake Geneva is just up the road, just hop in the car and drive there, no need to ride a bike any longer.
- The Interurban Trail - We really enjoyed this trail. Hop on it by the City Pool in Grafton and ride to Port Washington. Have lunch at the Dockside Deli right on Lake Michigan and explore the city. Port Washington is pretty hilly so walking is best. Bathrooms at the restaurant. You can actually get on this trail in Mequon or Cedarburg, but we didn't see any reason to ride any further.
- Oakleaf Trail - This trail winds through Milwaukee and goes on for miles and miles. We like the stretch through Greenfield Park going toward Whitnall Park. I will warn you, there are not alot of places to stop for a soda or food even though you are riding in a city. Bathrooms were also a problem on this section of the trail although I am sure the parks had them. Another section we enjoyed was through Wauwatosa. Lots of onstreet travel which breaks up the monotony of a trail. We actually saw deer on this trail in the city and we never saw a deer on any other trails!
I am going to close this chapter of my bike trail info. I will continue later.
Thanks for checking it out!
Another Day, Another Blog
Thursday, July 5, 2007
Here I am!
My first reaction was, "Does this mean you cannot have your own children?" I didn't want to ask them that right away, but I did pull my daughter aside later and ask her. She assured me that no doctor told them they couldn't have their own children, they were just anxious to get their family started and since nature wasn't working so well they decided to adopt. (They had talked about adopting from the time they started seriously dating so the idea was not foreign to us) I breathed a sigh of relief when I heard they could still have their own children because a part of me just wants my daughters to experience the growth and birth of a baby. I am being so selfish here, but I want to see a grandbaby growing in their tummies. I want to see a baby created by them and look to see whose eyes it has and whose hair it has. I want my legacy to live on.
Another reaction I had was, "Why Ethiopia?" I still don't know the answer to that, but there must be some good reasons why they chose that route. I wonder will I do okay with a child from a different culture? I know how to be a grandma, I have been practicing with other people's children for a long time. I am a preschool teacher and I have a great love for children. I have no doubt that I will be a wonderful grandma, but can I get used to a grandchild from another part of the world?
More later...